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How to successfully Breastfeed (during a growth spurt)

Peggy Posted by Peggy at 11:52 AM on July 08, 2009

If you are breastfeeding or know someone that is, you should read this!


This information is mainly going to help you get through your baby's growth spurts. And believe me: You will be glad that you read this when that time comes!


Here are some things that  no one  told me about breastfeeding but I wish they had!

Had I known of them, my son would've been breastfed longer and he and I both would've been spared a lot of stress and many tears (his and mine!).

This time around,with  little Miss Zoey,it  is so much easier and a relaxing experience. She is one happy fat baby, and I've got plenty of milk to feed her :-)


First of:

there is no such thing as "running out of milk".

It is a supply and demand situation.

The more you latch your child on to your breasts, the more milk you will produce.


What you absolutely MUST DO from the first day that you are nursing  to keep up your supply and your baby  happy (as well as yourself sane) during a growth spurt  is the following:


PUMP!

PUMP!!

PUMP!!!

and freeze!!!!


I suggest that you pump and freeze every morning, because that is usually the time of day that you will have the most amount available.


Having breastmilk in the freezer will prevent you from giving up on breastfeeding, out of fear that your baby is not getting enough.

When you can tell that your child is going through a growth spurt because your supply has lessened, compared to the demand , go ahead and feed your baby a bottle of  your frozen breastmilk. 

BUT you MUST pump directly (about 15 min later) after having fed him/her a bottle, to let your body know that it must produce more.

You need to pump 15 minutes per breast.


I strongly recommend that you purchase a breast pump BEFORE you deliver your child.

I am forever grateful that my "sister in law" Amy sent me mine when she did. Because of complications that both the baby and I had to endure during and after labor, I was unable to nurse her until she was 2 weeks old. She was formula fed until then, and it nearly killed me that I had to pump and dump my precious colostrum.


This brings me to my next  piece of advice!

Have Daddy, or another family member, feed the Baby the frozen breastmilk in the bottle (at least) once a day to let it get acquainted with it. This way it will accept - and not reject-  the bottle during a growth spurt.But remember: you have to pump. You should try do it while he/she is being bottle fed, just to be "in sync" with your baby's feeding times.


YOU SHOULD NEVER GIVE THE BOTTLE IF YOU CANNOT PUMP TO MAKE UP FOR IT.


At first, you will probably be dissapointed at the little amount that you are pumping, but it's one of the greatest feelings when you see it become more and more each day. It lets you actually SEE that you are producing your child's milk. This will make you feel much more confident and relaxed about being able to nurse your baby :-)


Something else that will help put your mind at ease, is to have a baby scale on which you can monitor your baby's weight gain.


So, lets make a list of the things you will need and preferrably already have ready when you bring your child home.


Must-haves:


Breast Pump - one that pumps both breasts at the same time will cut the time you spend on pumping in half


Breastmilk Bags - to store and freeze breastmilk


Bottles


Nipples for bottles -  the kind that are shaped like a breast's nipple


Nursing Pillow - to support your arm(s) while nursing


Nursing Cover - so that you may breastfeed in public without exposing yourself to everyone



What would be nice to have:


Rocking Chair and Ottoman - you and Baby will spend A LOT of time nursing..so, you MUST be comfortable!


Baby scale - to monitor baby's weight gain and put your mind at ease


CHECK MY "MUST-HAVES!" PAGE FOR THE ITEMS I HAVE AND ABSOLUTELY LOVE AND RECOMMEND!




WHO you should contact if you are experiencing difficulties:

 

Lactation Consultant - your OB/GYN or Pediatrician should be able to provide you with the name and contact info of one



I wish you much success!


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5 Comments

Reply Briana B
12:10 PM on July 10, 2009
Well Mrs.Peggy, I wish you were there when Bobby was born!! I had such a hard time breast feeding. I decided just to pump and feed him the bottle with the breast milk in it. After 3 weeks of only getting an ounce (if lucky) per breast after 30 minutes of pumping...I gave up! I thought I was drying up! But the odd thing now is, he is almost 4, I have had a hysterectomy (still have left tube and ovary), and I still have milk! I have been advised to have it checked out, but I have also been told that it could be normal since my body still produces estrogen and hormones, so I could still have milk!
Reply Angela
09:54 PM on July 22, 2009
Breastfeeding is so different for everyone but the basics usually work. I went through breastfeeding hell with my first son. He was born at 37 weeks and just didn't know how or want to latch on.....so I pumped...for 20 mins on the hour every hour even thru the night. I would bottle feed him and change him (keeping a written log of every ounce and every diaper since he lost I full pound the first night home) and returning to the hospital everyday to visit my lactation nurse to pump and weigh. All the while he never once got formula...I was determined I was gonna win! Even thru engorgement and feeling as tho my nipples were being ripped off....lol I would try the breast, try the breast, try the breast....nothing. Well it's hard when babies are introduced to the bottle so soon...it's easier but they also have to eat to live so sometimes we have no choice. He was due on June 29th and he was born on June 6th. On June 29th I recieved a nipple shield from my lactation nurse...I took it home,slipped it on, he latched onto it. I immediately slid it out of the way and he latched on to my nipple and was a breastfeeding champ!! In fact he would nurse for 5 hours straight catching up on lost time...lol I never pumped for him again. It wasn't easy for me but I breastfed him for 10 months, biting my knuckles every single time. But we did it! As hard as it was I felt like I had won a gold cause I stuck through one of the hardest things I think any woman can ever go through. Now he is a very healthy 12 year old. Now I look at him and can't believe I gave birth to him! lol
Reply Tracee
11:59 PM on July 28, 2009
Before I had my twins, I planned to breastfeed to experience the bonding with my babies, but since there were two of them, ultimately I would pump and feed. I actually did breastfeed them both exclusively for the first seven days of their lives, and on the eighth day mommy gave up the position of head cow in exchange for some sleep! Plus I had to make sure each baby got the same amount. The most important advise I would give is don't be afraid to supplement with formula if you have to. The sheer stress of thinking about not being able to make enough milk caused my supply to decrease. So now if I feel we are low on supple, they get formula for breakfast. Just that one bottle eases my stress so that we have an ample supply for both babies. My next issue was (prior to delivery) when I would tell people that I planned to pump and feed their response ALWAYS was "oh you will dry up faster"! My advise is don't take advise from people who have no clue and IF you do have a clue please offer only positive advise to others. We are all different. I had people tell me I would dry up by pumping instead of breast feeding and they don't even have kids... So be supportive and offer advise on what did work for you AND offer advise on things you may have done differently. I wish I had tried nipple shields. I would cry from the pain everytime I fed the babies since my nipples were so sore. My twins are 8 months old and I plan on continueing to pump at least until they are one (probably thru flu season also)! At first it was discouraging because of th small amount that I made, but I stuck with it and now my husband jokes that I could give Braums a run for their money...
Reply pcangel842@yahoo.com
10:40 AM on July 29, 2009
Tracee : That's funny considering alot of the time mom's pump start and increase their milk flow.....but us mom's are full of opinions....esp the older we get...lol The biggest advice I ever give to a new mom is to take time to educate yourself about your pregnancy, delivery and those important things that come after because every woman is entitled to do it exactly her way.
Reply lily
01:11 PM on August 12, 2009
i think moms to be need to let their nipples be the baby's soothie if the breast arent producing enough milk for a full meal. Mine werent so baby got use to the quick formula and refused to suck when hungry. By time i realized I should use my nipple as a soothie (instead of just trying to give her my breast when hungry) it was too late for me. I pumped every day for almost 2 months. never got more than 1-2 ounces. Eventually gave up. Thankfully, baby is well, about 90% in height (6 mo now) very healthy. We used similac's immunity boost formula.